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Guidelines for Schools on Addressing Teen Dating Violence

Understanding and Responding to Youth at Risk for Dating Violence

Warning SignsAt Risk BehaviorsStrategies/Preventions
  • Low self-esteem
  • Views violence as a means of problem solving
  • Belief that assault is normal
  • Difficulty in establishing positive relationships with women or girls
  • Lack of empathy toward others
  • Difficulty with social interactions
  • Need for instant gratification
  • Low impulse control
  • Angry outbursts
  • Difficulty with dating relationships
  • Very degrading toward females
  • Victim stance
  • Difficulty with authority figures
  • Inappropriate physical contact
  • Inability to set goals for the future
  • Has witnessed domestic violence toward their mother
  • Difficulty with accepting responsibility for own actions
  • Hopelessness
  • Depression
  • Poor decision making/problem solving skills
  • Sexual harassing behavior
  • Difficulty with following directions
  • Little or no investment in learning life skills
  • Fear of failure/anxiety
  • Verbal abuse
  • Physical abuse
  • Emotinal abuse
  • Sexual acting out
  • Rape
  • Teen Dating Violence
  • Power and control struggles
  • Truancy
  • Delinquency
  • Poor academic performance
  • Gang involvement
  • Early fatherhood
  • Early involvement with the criminal justice system
  • Stalking
  • Risk of substance abuse
  • Build a working relationship
  • Engage in high risk group
  • Support seeking help as a positive act
  • Individual counseling
  • Develop an understanding of positive female and male roles
  • Expose gender role stereotyping
  • Empower youth by allowing them to make choices and actively paticipate in their prevention processes
  • Point out where high risk behavior leads and the consequences
  • Point out why it is in the young person's best interest to change
  • Work on alternatives to violent or abusive behaviors
  • Encourage taking public responsibility for negative behaviors
  • Work on social skills/relationships
  • Provide opportunities for concrete achievements
  • Work on establishing positive values/identity
  • Work on life skills
  • Work on goal setting/planning for the future
  • Work on self-esteem
  • Work on anger management
  • Work on substance abuse/gang prevention
  • Provide information about sexuality
  • Define the difference between rape and consentual sex
  • Define the difference between possessive behavior and love and caring
  • Encourage talking about any specifics of negative behavior in group setting
  • Help them to define respect

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